{"id":2558,"date":"2025-05-20T11:43:15","date_gmt":"2025-05-20T11:43:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/riine.ee\/?p=2558"},"modified":"2025-06-12T08:51:50","modified_gmt":"2025-06-12T08:51:50","slug":"kui-paarisuhe-loppeb-aga-vanemlik-side-jaab-kuidas-hoida-korda-armastuses-ja-kaitsta-last","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/riine.ee\/en\/paarisuhted\/kui-paarisuhe-loppeb-aga-vanemlik-side-jaab-kuidas-hoida-korda-armastuses-ja-kaitsta-last\/","title":{"rendered":"Kui paarisuhe l\u00f5ppeb, aga vanemlik side j\u00e4\u00e4b: kuidas hoida korda armastuses ja kaitsta last"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Paarisuhe v\u00f5ib l\u00f5ppeda, kuid vanemlik side j\u00e4\u00e4b \u2013 igaveseks<\/p>\n<p>Armastus armastab korda.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Viimasel ajal on minu poole p\u00f6\u00f6rdunud v\u00e4ga paljud just \u00fche ja sama tundega: midagi on lahti suhetes, midagi on keeruline. On palju k\u00fcsimusi&#8230;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Lahkuminek, kui on lapsed.<\/li>\n<li>Soovitakse leida rahu v\u00f5i taas\u00fchineda.<\/li>\n<li>Viha, s\u00fc\u00fctunne, segadus.<\/li>\n<li>\u00dcksteisest lahtilaskmine \u2013 v\u00f5i kinnij\u00e4\u00e4mine, milles pole selgust.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Kes \u00fctleb: \u201cMa igatsen teda siiani.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kes \u00fctleb: \u201cMa ei saa edasi minna, sest tema ikka sekkub.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kes \u00fctleb: \u201cMa vihkan teda, sest ta pettis\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kes \u00fctleb: \u201cMa ei suuda andestada endale seda, et ma lahkusin\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>S\u00fcsteemses vaates \u00fcks v\u00e4ga selge ja tervendav t\u00f5de on see:<\/p>\n<h4>Armastus armastab korda.<\/h4>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Kui mees ja naine loovad koos suhte, tekib nende vahele paarisuhe.<\/p>\n<p>Kui suhtest s\u00fcnnivad lapsed, luuakse lisaks vanemlik side.<\/p>\n<p>Paarisuhe v\u00f5ib l\u00f5ppeda, kuid vanemlik side ei l\u00f5ppe kunagi. See j\u00e4\u00e4b alatiseks.<\/p>\n<p>Aga kui suhe l\u00f5ppeb, algab lein. Lein kestab m\u00f5nikord pool suhtes oldud ajast. Kuid see saab l\u00f5ppeda alles siis, kui p\u00e4riselt lastakse lahti.<\/p>\n<p>Paljud, kes teevad otsuse lahkuda, tunnevad hiljem \u201csuuremat s\u00fc\u00fcd.\u201d Kuid vastutus suhte eba\u00f5nnestumise eest on alati jagatud \u2013 50:50.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4>Kuidas hoida korda armastuses?<\/h4>\n<p>Suurim kingitus, mida saad sel hetkel oma lapsele anda, on t\u00e4iskasvanulik kohalolu ja selgus.<\/p>\n<p>Meie paarisuhe sai l\u00e4bi. Aga meie vanemlik side j\u00e4\u00e4b.<\/p>\n<p>Laps ei tohi j\u00e4\u00e4da segadusse ega kartma, kas ta v\u00f5ib m\u00f5lemat vanemat armastada. Laps ei tohi olla see, kes pannakse valima.<\/p>\n<p>Laps on 50% emast ja 50% isast.<\/p>\n<p>Kui ta peab kellegi poole valima, valib ta alati iseenda vastu.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Lapse maailmas peaks alati kehtima \u00fcks t\u00f5de, mida m\u00f5lemad vanemad v\u00f5iksid lastele ka v\u00e4ljendada:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cSee, mis juhtus meie (vanemate) vahel, on meie asi. Sina ei ole selles s\u00fc\u00fcdi. Sa v\u00f5id armastada meid m\u00f5lemaid. Sinus armastan ma edasi sinu ema\/isa. Me j\u00e4\u00e4me igavesti sinu vanemateks. Ja sinu s\u00fcdames oleme me alati koos.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>See ei ole lihtne, kuid see on v\u00f5imalik. Ja see on oluline. Lapse jaoks. Ja ka sinu enda jaoks.<\/p>\n<p>Armastus pole kadunud \u2013 ta vajab vaid korda.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Riine<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Paarisuhe v\u00f5ib l\u00f5ppeda, kuid vanemlik side j\u00e4\u00e4b \u2013 igaveseks Armastus armastab korda. &nbsp; Viimasel ajal on 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