Oled sa tundnud, et annad endast k\u00f5ik, aga ikka j\u00e4\u00e4b midagi puudu? Et elus miski ei liigu edasi, kuigi sa v\u00e4ga tahaksid? V\u00f5i oled lihtsalt v\u00e4sinud\u2026 kuid mitte p\u00e4evast v\u00f5i t\u00f6\u00f6st \u2013 vaid s\u00fcgaval sisimas? See v\u00f5ib olla m\u00e4rk, et sa kannad midagi, mis ei kuulu sulle.<\/p>\n
Sageli p\u00f6\u00f6rdutakse minu poole olukorras, kus inimene \u00fctleb: \u201cMa olen teinud k\u00f5ik, aga ikka on justkui mingi n\u00e4htamatu takistus ees.\u201d Ja kui me koos s\u00fcgavamale vaatame, siis selgub: ta ei ela mitte ainult oma elu, vaid t\u00e4idab t\u00fchimikke oma peres\u00fcsteemis, mis pole tema \u00fclesanne.<\/p>\n
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S\u00fcsteemne vaade \u00fctleb, et iga peres\u00fcsteemi juhivad kolm olulist seadusp\u00e4ra. Kui m\u00f5nda neist eirata, ei saa armastus ei saa vabalt voolata. S\u00fcdamesse tekib raskus. Elu j\u00e4\u00e4b seisma. Tekib tunne, et edasi minna pole v\u00f5imalik. Liigne koormatus, sisemine konflikt v\u00f5i suhete pinged v\u00f5ivad olla m\u00e4rgid sellest, et midagi s\u00fcsteemis ootab n\u00e4htavaks saamist ja austust.<\/p>\n
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Igal inimesel on \u00f5igus kuuluda oma peres\u00fcsteemi \u2013 ka nendel, keda on unustatud, h\u00e4benetud v\u00f5i hukkam\u00f5istetud.<\/p>\n
Kui keegi j\u00e4etakse v\u00e4lja, siis v\u00f5ib j\u00e4rgmistes p\u00f5lvkondades v\u00f5ib keegi hakata kandma tema saatust v\u00f5i valu \u2013 ilma, et nad seda teadvustaksid.<\/p>\n
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Need, kes tulid enne meid \u2013 vanemad, vanavanemad \u2013 on s\u00fcsteemis suuremad ja neil on ka justkui suuremad \u00f5igused. Meie \u2013 hilisemad p\u00f5lvkonnad \u2013 oleme v\u00e4iksemad.<\/p>\n
Kui astume kellegi teise kohale v\u00f5i p\u00fc\u00fcame midagi nende eest \u201cheaks teha\u201d, siis asume oma s\u00fcsteemis k\u00f5rgemale positsoonile, kui on meie tegelik koht. See paneb eluvoo lukku, sest me ei saa elada kellegi teise elu ja enda oma samal ajal.<\/p>\n
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Igas suhtes peab olema andmise ja vastuv\u00f5tmise tasakaal. Kui \u00fcks ainult annab ja teine ainult v\u00f5tab, siis tasakaalutus muutub nii suureks, et \u00fchendus katkeb. See ei t\u00e4henda t\u00e4pset v\u00f5rdsust andmise ja v\u00f5tmise vahel, vaid austavat ning elutervet vastastikkust energiavahetust.<\/p>\n
Kui neid seadusp\u00e4rasid eiratakse, siis s\u00fcsteem hakkab kompenseerima, otsima viise tasakaalu saavutamiseks. Alateadlikult hakkab keegi \u201ct\u00e4itma auku\u201d, pimedast armastusest.<\/p>\n
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\u2022 pea \u00fctleb \u00fcht, aga keha r\u00e4\u00e4gib teist keelt<\/p>\n
\u2022 sinu elus kordub mingi muster<\/p>\n
\u2022 kui oled pidevalt kurnatud, segaduses, nagu jookseksid vastu n\u00e4htamatut seina<\/p>\n
\u2022 kui elu lihtsalt ei l\u00e4he soovitud suunas, kuigi v\u00e4ga pingutad<\/p>\n
See ei ole alati seotud sinu valikutega, vaid millegagi, mis on tugevalt alateadlik \u2013 s\u00fcsteemis j\u00e4\u00e4nud n\u00e4htamatuks ja vajab kohta.<\/p>\n
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S\u00fcsteemne t\u00f6\u00f6 aitab n\u00e4htavale tuua selle, mis on seni olnud varjatud. Kui me m\u00e4rkame, tunneme, kuulame ja austame, siis hakkavad armastus ja elu j\u00e4lle voolama. Kehas tekib uus tunne \u2013 ja see on m\u00e4rk, et midagi on saanud koha. Muutus saab alata.<\/p>\n
See ei ole kiire nipp ega imerohi. Aga see on p\u00e4ris. See on kehaline kogemus, mida on raske s\u00f5nadesse panna, kuid kui see juhtub \u2013 siis koged seda s\u00fcgavalt.<\/p>\n
Kui inimene v\u00f5tab vastutuse, \u00f5pib elama koosk\u00f5las iseenda ja oma saatusega, siis elu hakkab teda toetama. Energia liigub vabalt. Loovus avardub. Elus on rohkem lahendusi kui probleeme. Ja midagi ei tundu enam v\u00f5imatu.<\/p>\n
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Kui oled v\u00f5tnud koha, mis ei kuulu sulle \u2013 proovinud kellegi teise elu \u201cparandada\u201d v\u00f5i tema valu kanda \u2013, siis tea: Sa ei ole \u00fcksinda, enamik meist on seda mingil hetkel teinud.<\/p>\n
Kuid see ei ole ka austus. Austus on \u00f6elda: \u201cKa sina kuulud meie juurde. Ait\u00e4h, et olid. Mul on kahju selle p\u00e4rast, mis sinuga juhtus v\u00f5i mida \u00fcle elama pidid. Ma annan sulle koha.\u201d Ja astuda tagasi oma kohale. Olles just see, kes sa oled. Mitte rohkem, mitte v\u00e4hem.<\/p>\n
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Kui me v\u00f5tame vastu need, kes tulid enne meid \u2013 oma ebat\u00e4iuslikkuse ja elusaatusega, siis saame l\u00f5puks vastu v\u00f5tta ka iseenda elu. Sellisena, nagu see on. Ilus. Ehe. Voolav.<\/p>\n
Kui see sind puudutas ja sa tunned, et soovid seda l\u00e4hemalt uurida, oled oodatud minuga \u00fchendust v\u00f5tma.<\/p>\n
S\u00fcsteemne t\u00f6\u00f6 loob ruumi muutuseks, kuid p\u00e4ris muutus algab siis, kui oled valmis vastu v\u00f5tma oma koha.<\/p>\n
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